Wednesday, September 29, 2010
Thursday, September 23, 2010
"Ed-yoo-kay-shun"- Say Anything #2
What are your plans for educating Olivia? You are always a wealth of well-researched information and I was wondering what your views were on the subject. I am becoming more and more disenchanted with our public school system and am researching alternatives. Que piensas?
-This is an awesome question and my answer is lengthy. There are many aspects to the education debate and many things to consider. My strongest point as far as education for children is that parents/guardians need to take ownership and full responsibility for their kid's education. We cannot just drop our kid off at school every morning and hope for the best.
My dad was a HUGE intellectual influence for my sister and me and continues to be. My parents made the finacial sacrifice of putting us both in private schools with the best curriculum available in San Diego. Our entire K-12 school life was not private though, we also went to a public elementary school for a couple of years and finished high school at a public school, as well. We were lucky to live in an area with decent public education but in retrospect neither one of these institutions compared to the private school approach to teaching kids.
Ideally, I would love to homeschool Olivia. When done correctly, homeschooling is extremely enriching and empowering for children. This is not for everyone because it does require a lot of discipline, structure, time, and commitment. However, I have mom friends who homeschool and their kids are so social and ahead of most kids their age academically. Homeschooling groups make fun field trips to the zoo, museums, parks, etc. etc. Homeschooling is not what it's reputation dictates. The reason I like the homeschooling idea is that parents take complete control of their child's learning while also having the freedom to partake in fun social activities with other homeschooled kids outside the home.
At this point, I do not see homeschooling in our future. It does not seem like the best fit for us for several reasons. Todd likes the idea of Olivia having a typical schooling experience, and at this moment I am not a stay at home mom. Sadly, public schools in California are suffering greatly. Large classrooms of kids lead to crowd control and over-worked teachers. The curriculum and expectation for each grade level seems to falter year after year according to the research I have done. Children who struggle continue to be pushed to the next grade and kids who are "gifted" are often forced to ride the wave of their classmates who are behind.
To answer the question, our plan for education is to enroll Olivia in a charter/private school in our city. There are several excellent schools in San Diego with faculty that is there because they WANT to be and can be fired if they are not 100% committed to their kids. The curriculum is strong and academic excellence is paramount. The classrooms are significantly smaller so teachers can actually work with their students independently and help build on their personal strengths. I can remember this from my own experiences growing up. I felt my teachers knew me and pushed my talents and encouraged me to try harder in the subjects I was not A+ in.
One more thing: Language. I speak Spanish to Olivia and Todd speaks English. I also teach her words in French. For some reason the U.S. does not foster the opportunity for kids to learn other languages. All my cousins who were educated in Mexico were taught English and their homework was always way more advanced than mine. In most developed countries, if not all, kids are learning another language in elementary school! I don't get it?
No matter if your kids go to private or public school, it is absolutely essential to add to whatever goes on while they're at school. My dad would give us history lessons, encourage literature, and explain math problems. At that time, I thought it was so annoying but now I am eternally grateful.
If any of you have any more information to add or correct, especially if you are working in the public school system, please chime in. We're all ears!
-This is an awesome question and my answer is lengthy. There are many aspects to the education debate and many things to consider. My strongest point as far as education for children is that parents/guardians need to take ownership and full responsibility for their kid's education. We cannot just drop our kid off at school every morning and hope for the best.
My dad was a HUGE intellectual influence for my sister and me and continues to be. My parents made the finacial sacrifice of putting us both in private schools with the best curriculum available in San Diego. Our entire K-12 school life was not private though, we also went to a public elementary school for a couple of years and finished high school at a public school, as well. We were lucky to live in an area with decent public education but in retrospect neither one of these institutions compared to the private school approach to teaching kids.
Ideally, I would love to homeschool Olivia. When done correctly, homeschooling is extremely enriching and empowering for children. This is not for everyone because it does require a lot of discipline, structure, time, and commitment. However, I have mom friends who homeschool and their kids are so social and ahead of most kids their age academically. Homeschooling groups make fun field trips to the zoo, museums, parks, etc. etc. Homeschooling is not what it's reputation dictates. The reason I like the homeschooling idea is that parents take complete control of their child's learning while also having the freedom to partake in fun social activities with other homeschooled kids outside the home.
At this point, I do not see homeschooling in our future. It does not seem like the best fit for us for several reasons. Todd likes the idea of Olivia having a typical schooling experience, and at this moment I am not a stay at home mom. Sadly, public schools in California are suffering greatly. Large classrooms of kids lead to crowd control and over-worked teachers. The curriculum and expectation for each grade level seems to falter year after year according to the research I have done. Children who struggle continue to be pushed to the next grade and kids who are "gifted" are often forced to ride the wave of their classmates who are behind.
To answer the question, our plan for education is to enroll Olivia in a charter/private school in our city. There are several excellent schools in San Diego with faculty that is there because they WANT to be and can be fired if they are not 100% committed to their kids. The curriculum is strong and academic excellence is paramount. The classrooms are significantly smaller so teachers can actually work with their students independently and help build on their personal strengths. I can remember this from my own experiences growing up. I felt my teachers knew me and pushed my talents and encouraged me to try harder in the subjects I was not A+ in.
One more thing: Language. I speak Spanish to Olivia and Todd speaks English. I also teach her words in French. For some reason the U.S. does not foster the opportunity for kids to learn other languages. All my cousins who were educated in Mexico were taught English and their homework was always way more advanced than mine. In most developed countries, if not all, kids are learning another language in elementary school! I don't get it?
No matter if your kids go to private or public school, it is absolutely essential to add to whatever goes on while they're at school. My dad would give us history lessons, encourage literature, and explain math problems. At that time, I thought it was so annoying but now I am eternally grateful.
If any of you have any more information to add or correct, especially if you are working in the public school system, please chime in. We're all ears!
Wednesday, September 22, 2010
Tuesday, September 21, 2010
First Installation!
Say Anything, version 1. Keep 'em coming :)
1. What's your relationship like with your own parents/siblings? How has it affected the way you parent?
-I am very, very close to my parents and sister. My mom is my hero and my dad is just absolutely amazing. No one could be more selfless and devoted than my mother, no one. Having this amazing pair of parents just makes me realize how I want to be there for Olivia 110% all the time like they were. It also makes me realize how unbelievably hard those shoes will be to fill. I strive to be almost as wonderful as them. Even almost would be a lot!
My sister is my best friend and I am constantly reminded that her best qualities are the ones I should strive for, so much compassion and sensitivity. That girl has a whole lotta heart.
2. Beauty secrets?? Tell me!
- A really good eyelash curler, two coats of mascara, and moisturizer! Good skin is the best cosmetic. Oh yeah, sleep and red wine (not in any particular order).
3. What did you eat for breakfast this morning?
-Leftover pasta from last night. This morning Pea and I ate that in bed together. Very unusual. 9 times out of 10 it's coffee and a banana on the run.
4. Do you have any tattoos? If so what are they and do you want more?
-I have 3 small tattoos. One that I got when I was 17 and dumb, thankfully it is tiny and er, hidden. I have a small and very cute strawberry on my hip that I got when I turned 18. On my right wrist I have 4 small red hearts. My sister and two BFFs (Hi Lu!) have it, also. We got it in Hollywood. Fun times.
I would like to get another someday, but I question it. What I want is a beautiful Pablo Picasso sketch that I found in an art book a couple of years ago. It's an outline of a woman's face, sort of like a Venus. It is so pretty and feminine. It's a big piece and that's why I am hesitant but I have been thinking of it more recently. I would love to include Olivia's name in there somewhere in a very subtle way.
1. What's your relationship like with your own parents/siblings? How has it affected the way you parent?
-I am very, very close to my parents and sister. My mom is my hero and my dad is just absolutely amazing. No one could be more selfless and devoted than my mother, no one. Having this amazing pair of parents just makes me realize how I want to be there for Olivia 110% all the time like they were. It also makes me realize how unbelievably hard those shoes will be to fill. I strive to be almost as wonderful as them. Even almost would be a lot!
My sister is my best friend and I am constantly reminded that her best qualities are the ones I should strive for, so much compassion and sensitivity. That girl has a whole lotta heart.
2. Beauty secrets?? Tell me!
- A really good eyelash curler, two coats of mascara, and moisturizer! Good skin is the best cosmetic. Oh yeah, sleep and red wine (not in any particular order).
3. What did you eat for breakfast this morning?
-Leftover pasta from last night. This morning Pea and I ate that in bed together. Very unusual. 9 times out of 10 it's coffee and a banana on the run.
4. Do you have any tattoos? If so what are they and do you want more?
-I have 3 small tattoos. One that I got when I was 17 and dumb, thankfully it is tiny and er, hidden. I have a small and very cute strawberry on my hip that I got when I turned 18. On my right wrist I have 4 small red hearts. My sister and two BFFs (Hi Lu!) have it, also. We got it in Hollywood. Fun times.
I would like to get another someday, but I question it. What I want is a beautiful Pablo Picasso sketch that I found in an art book a couple of years ago. It's an outline of a woman's face, sort of like a Venus. It is so pretty and feminine. It's a big piece and that's why I am hesitant but I have been thinking of it more recently. I would love to include Olivia's name in there somewhere in a very subtle way.
Monday, September 20, 2010
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
Sunday, September 19, 2010
Finally!
Exactly twenty days before I get married I found my dress. Just in time to get alterations done and any other last minute details. It is dreamy, very pretty and cut so perfectly for my body it's almost like it was made for me. On my way to go pay for another not-so-perfect and way more expensive dress I stopped (on a whim) to check out a tiny little bridal shop in a random part of town. Turns out, this place is a gem. One of my best friends found her wedding dress there, too. The dress is not bridal-y, or common, or poofy. It's like I found the one I did not even know I was looking for.
I took photos of every single dress I tried on except this one. Not a single picture was snapped because it is just too special. I cannot wait to surprise everyone.
I'm happy.
I took photos of every single dress I tried on except this one. Not a single picture was snapped because it is just too special. I cannot wait to surprise everyone.
I'm happy.
Monday, September 13, 2010
Muse Monday
"As a working mother, the last thing on my mind when I'm trying to get my son out the door and to school on time is how I look. I still love clothes, but they just don't fit into my life the way they used to. For work, I get to dress up and somebody does my hair and makeup, and its like a little holiday for a few hours. But for everyday, it would be foolish to spend more time on my outfit than I do on my son."
-Sarah Jessica Parker
images via: Google
-Sarah Jessica Parker
images via: Google
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